Prompt library · About you
The way to win me over is…
Name the specific thing that makes you feel seen.
How to answer it
This prompt is an instruction manual for dating you — so make it usable. Skip the grand gestures and name something a real person could actually do on a Tuesday. The smaller and more specific your answer, the more it says about you, and the easier you make it for someone to picture doing it.
Example answers
“A flat white and a museum with no plan.”
“Remembering the tiny thing I mentioned three weeks ago.”
“Sending me the song, not just telling me about it.”
What to avoid
- "Food" — true of everyone, says nothing about you.
- A list of demands. This is an invitation, not a job spec.
Why it works: Answers here get replies because they hand someone a first move. "A museum with no plan" is a date idea wearing a prompt answer's clothes.