Prompt library · Getting personal
I'm looking for someone who…
Say the true thing, not the safe thing.
How to answer it
This is the intentional-dating prompt — the one place a direct answer beats a clever one. Name how you actually want it to feel with someone. One honest sentence filters better than a checklist, and warmth here reads as confidence, not neediness.
Example answers
“Says yes to the spontaneous plan.”
“Asks the second question, not just the first.”
“Wants the kind of thing you don't have to play cool about.”
What to avoid
- A height requirement. You know this one.
- Listing everything you're NOT looking for — it reads as baggage.
Why it works: People who want what you want will recognise themselves immediately — which is the entire job of a dating profile.